feeling lonely :(

I made a resolution this year that I would change and try to be more outgoing and try to make an effort and make some friends.  Since I moved here (about 5 months ago) I have just been focused on my new job and school and the future, just looking towards what I want to eventually become.  But, I miss having that human connection like I do when I am with my sisters or when I did with my friends back in San Diego.  I have never been one to make friends easily, I don't trust a lot of people right away and I always feel like people just don't like me for whatever reason.  So, today, I reverted back to just saying "whatever", I am not going to try and make an effort, if it happens then it happens and to just focus on work and school and just trying to make myself a better person, but in the end, I still go home feeling lonely and feel so out of touch...